Assuming your guest goes out once in a while, change the locks in his or her absence. How do I remove an unwanted house guest permanently?
Make them think you have mental problems. Like talk to yourself and mumble around. haha I think that would warn them. Oh yeah walk around in your underwear. They might never want to come back.How do I remove an unwanted house guest permanently?
Tell them to leave and not come back, and tell them why.
Sunday, February 28, 2010
Have you ever had a house guest from hell?
Have you had a house guest that worn out their welcome. Or a guest that took the term ';Make yourself at home'; literally?
What happened and what did you do?Have you ever had a house guest from hell?
well had this friend of mine who got flooded out from the katrina storm and he called me asked if he and his wife could stay at my house for a little while until he got a place of his own.I said sure no problem,had plenty of room.I had never met his wife,which he just married not too long before the storm hit.They came to stay and I had bought some groceries for myself and picked up a little extra,well this wife of his didn't want to have to get up and look for a job,so she sat in my house,while I was at work and messed around on my computer in chat rooms or whatever (gave it a virus) when I got home from work in one day she had ate 10 of my little fruit cups that I take to work for my lunch.she ate a bag of chips and half a package of cheese..she did NOT throw anything in the trash but left little empty fruit cups and spoons all over my house.she then had the balls to tell me that my carpet had crumbs on it and asked me when I would be cleaning the carpet cause the chip crumbs hurt her feet.Did I mention at the time I was working 50 hours a week or more? to make a long story short.I finally told them both they had to go,he found an apt and the day before they left my house she told me that she thinks I was looking at her husband ';all gay like'; and they are moving cause she thinks I will steal her man and she threw herself on the floor and started to scream and yell about her man...did I mention I am a straight man who at the time had a girlfriend? LOL..this woman was INSANE! he is still marrried to her to this day but she is not welcome ever in my home again.I told her off and sent them on their way.Have you ever had a house guest from hell?
Oh yeah.
When i was in middle school and my brother was in high school, he had this friend that mooched off of him for everything.
His friend lived in the rich side of town and we lived on the poor side, but apparently he got in some arguement with his mom and left his house, and my mom let him live with us.
But he was soo rude about it.. He ate all of our food, ran up our bills, smoked in the house when we weren't home and then got in a fight with my brother and left without saying thank you or anything. He never even paid rent.
My cousin stayed with us for like a month or two and he is the laziest person I have ever met. I would get home from work and discover he didn't get off the couch the entire day. He wouldn't even put his own dishes in the kitchen when he was done and one time I made the mistake of asking him to make the corn for dinner and it was a 20 minute ordeal where he flat out refused. I took him back to his mom and left him; hes not invited here anymore..
No. When my dad and us moved to America, we were the house guests from hell. Where we were from, it was ok for family to stay with relatives. We learned in America that people weren't that friendly. We left soon. We've become more Americanized in the past 20 years, which isn't a good thing. It's rare to go overseas and run into people who are just so civil and would do anything to accommodate and befriend you. Americans are really mean people. I suspect much of this will change. Many are just too spoiled and selfish.
As the money in this country dries up, people will realize Paris Hilton is not the sort of person they should be modeling their lives after.
No but I have been one and I will not behave like that ever again. Let's just say that it is best to watch (even in though this is from the kindness of your heart), who you invite to stay with you.
What happened and what did you do?Have you ever had a house guest from hell?
well had this friend of mine who got flooded out from the katrina storm and he called me asked if he and his wife could stay at my house for a little while until he got a place of his own.I said sure no problem,had plenty of room.I had never met his wife,which he just married not too long before the storm hit.They came to stay and I had bought some groceries for myself and picked up a little extra,well this wife of his didn't want to have to get up and look for a job,so she sat in my house,while I was at work and messed around on my computer in chat rooms or whatever (gave it a virus) when I got home from work in one day she had ate 10 of my little fruit cups that I take to work for my lunch.she ate a bag of chips and half a package of cheese..she did NOT throw anything in the trash but left little empty fruit cups and spoons all over my house.she then had the balls to tell me that my carpet had crumbs on it and asked me when I would be cleaning the carpet cause the chip crumbs hurt her feet.Did I mention at the time I was working 50 hours a week or more? to make a long story short.I finally told them both they had to go,he found an apt and the day before they left my house she told me that she thinks I was looking at her husband ';all gay like'; and they are moving cause she thinks I will steal her man and she threw herself on the floor and started to scream and yell about her man...did I mention I am a straight man who at the time had a girlfriend? LOL..this woman was INSANE! he is still marrried to her to this day but she is not welcome ever in my home again.I told her off and sent them on their way.Have you ever had a house guest from hell?
Oh yeah.
When i was in middle school and my brother was in high school, he had this friend that mooched off of him for everything.
His friend lived in the rich side of town and we lived on the poor side, but apparently he got in some arguement with his mom and left his house, and my mom let him live with us.
But he was soo rude about it.. He ate all of our food, ran up our bills, smoked in the house when we weren't home and then got in a fight with my brother and left without saying thank you or anything. He never even paid rent.
My cousin stayed with us for like a month or two and he is the laziest person I have ever met. I would get home from work and discover he didn't get off the couch the entire day. He wouldn't even put his own dishes in the kitchen when he was done and one time I made the mistake of asking him to make the corn for dinner and it was a 20 minute ordeal where he flat out refused. I took him back to his mom and left him; hes not invited here anymore..
No. When my dad and us moved to America, we were the house guests from hell. Where we were from, it was ok for family to stay with relatives. We learned in America that people weren't that friendly. We left soon. We've become more Americanized in the past 20 years, which isn't a good thing. It's rare to go overseas and run into people who are just so civil and would do anything to accommodate and befriend you. Americans are really mean people. I suspect much of this will change. Many are just too spoiled and selfish.
As the money in this country dries up, people will realize Paris Hilton is not the sort of person they should be modeling their lives after.
No but I have been one and I will not behave like that ever again. Let's just say that it is best to watch (even in though this is from the kindness of your heart), who you invite to stay with you.
I trying to make my detached garage into a guest house in indiana.can i tie inthe sewer line into the main?
so can i tie the sewere line into main in the house and do i use coppper lines for the cold water to the garage?I trying to make my detached garage into a guest house in indiana.can i tie inthe sewer line into the main?
First, have you gotten your building permit? They are really picky about how things are done when converting garages into living quarters. You would hate to get the garage conversion completed then have them come and condemn it. This would leave you with wasted money and no guest room.
Secondly, the water line work is easy, although I would use plastic since it will be going outside, probably buried. But as far as tying the sewer in, I would call in a professional plumber for that job. Playing with the sewer connections is a lot messier and the consequences of a job done wrong are worse than when you are working with fresh water.
Good luck.I trying to make my detached garage into a guest house in indiana.can i tie inthe sewer line into the main?
Try calling a plumber sweetie and see what they suggest!thick hair
First, have you gotten your building permit? They are really picky about how things are done when converting garages into living quarters. You would hate to get the garage conversion completed then have them come and condemn it. This would leave you with wasted money and no guest room.
Secondly, the water line work is easy, although I would use plastic since it will be going outside, probably buried. But as far as tying the sewer in, I would call in a professional plumber for that job. Playing with the sewer connections is a lot messier and the consequences of a job done wrong are worse than when you are working with fresh water.
Good luck.I trying to make my detached garage into a guest house in indiana.can i tie inthe sewer line into the main?
Try calling a plumber sweetie and see what they suggest!
What is the easiest way to get rid of a unwanted house guest?
My husband and I have the same friends. We have one family member who we love and has been there through our good times and bad. Here is the problem: When we want him to leave he find an excuse to stay. My husband David said he have to go. We had him stay for 9 mos. Never helped out with budget. He basically felt because that he was family and didn't have contribut to our budget household and said he was a guest and didn't have to help . My husband and I live on a military budget. We told him to help out with the budget. He faked an illness. Found out from his wife and kids that he went to a physical and mental doctor. Everything was normal. He had everyone fooled except for David and me. He tries for ust to cater to him and had the guts to tell us not to have sex when he is in the house and to keep our babies quiet and the house should be noise free house. David was about ready drop kick him! Any help would be hot.What is the easiest way to get rid of a unwanted house guest?
Drop kicking him sounds like a good idea.
However, you and your husband need to sit him down one day and tell him he has to find another place to live right away because he can't stay there anymore. You're not rich and you can't afford to support a full grown adult....and he has a wife and kids? What's with that? Why isn't he with them? He should be out working to provide for them, not freeloading from you two.
I would also give him an ultimatum. Either he leaves immediately, or he starts paying 1/2 of the bills, including food, water, electric, shampoo, etc.....be as petty on this one as you have to be. I'm guessing you'd rather he left instead of paid any money, so make it as unattractive as possible for him to keep staying there. Lay down the law......hard and fast....right on top of his head. Don't take any arguments. If he still refuses, have the MP's or local PD escort him off of the premises. Since he's not paying you anything at all, he's a guest and guests can be asked to leave at any time at all. He has no rights to that home and his autocratic behavior is his way of trying to assert his authority over you both. Don't stand for it.
Also, you might want to compile a list of items, food, bills etc that he's enjoyed during his stay there. Present this to him as his obligation to pay as well.
Lastly, I'd let the kids make a lot of noise and made sure this guest could hear you and your husband having sex at all hours. He has no right to dictate your behavior in your own home with your own husband. If he doesn't like hearing it, he should just leave, shouldn't he?. ;)
Good luck.What is the easiest way to get rid of a unwanted house guest?
You said you were pregnant before this question was posted, so Congrats. Kids are great, aren't they. :)
You've got the Houseguest from Hell, and it's time to do what you should have done a looooong time ago. Confront the lying, conniving bum and tell him to pack his toothbrush and git. You say he has everyone fooled except you and your husband. Sounds to me like he has you all suckered up too, since this has been going on for so long and the two of you have meekly allowed it to continue.
Why should you care if he throws a crying fit? You know it's all a con. If it were me, I'd have long ago had his stuff packed myself, and tossed out into the street. Get some backbone, the both of you, and make him hit the road.
Pack his stuff up when he's gone and leave it out in the yard.
He'll get the idea.
OR
You could make up an advertisement ad for a garage sale. That says if you and your possessions are not moved out of here in 5 days or whatever, there will be a garage sale and all of your stuff will be sold. All profits will go to us to help pay for the 9 months you lived here expense free.
That should get him moving.
If not, be blunt - tell him he's got 3 days or whatever to get out or the police will be called.
Tell him he has til the end of the week to get out.
Why would kicking him out be an issue, you would rather him ruin your marriage and your family life? Why have you let him leech onto you guys for so long? It must have caused so much stress. Grow some balls and kick his *** out!
I would call the police if he doesnt go, lay the law. But, my auntie said to my uncle if yur not out of the house by ';x'; date i will throw u out, and he hung himself. Just be careful he isnt to emotionally attached right now and if he is i wouldnt do that and opt for the police x
It seems pretty apparent that he is a free loader and feels that you and your husband owe him for the privilege of just being family. It is time to stop being nice about it and just pack his stuff and set it outside and change the locks if you must. You and David can tell him tonight/today that he has one week to find a place to go, but that he has worn out his welcome. The whole idea that he had the gall to say that you and your husband should not have sex while he was there and to keep your kids quiet is just proof that he does not think of it as your home and he being a guest. That is him trying to make rules and demands like it is his home. Forget asking for him to contribute or get a job, KICK him out! You are not doing him any good by letting him stay, you are just enabling him to continue his life of laziness.
YOu lay down the law.
';If you are not out by ';X'; date, I will throw you out.';
tell him to pay or get out. If he doesn't like the way your household is than get out. Family or not it's your house, your rules if he doesn't want to respect you and your family than tell him to find another person in the fam to free load off.
Wait till he goes out ........... then change the locks asap ............. problem solved !
You have to be firm. Tell him it is time to go and give him 24 hrs to get out or you will have call the police. Don't ever invite him again. Learn a lesson from this.
You love the guy, but he needs a drop kick. Give him a date he has to be out and stick with it.
Obviously you know said family member's hijinks, so between you and your husband, set up ground rules for how to deal with the poacher and let him know it is for real and permanent. He sounds adacious beyond human compassion.
You are too kind, but it is not helping the guy to let him be a sponge, and your home should be your refuge.
I can't believe for as firm as you are with me, you would let a piece of trash like him over stay his welcome.
Close your eyes and pretend he's me.
I'm sure you would kick me out in a heartbeat.
Well it sounds like you are just gonna have to put your foot down, he is taking advatage of yall. 9 months is way to long for a GUEST to stay. You may piss him off but that is just what yall have to do. Good Luck. One other thing you do is paint the room he is staying in yellow, i hear that scares off the guests lol
Be firm with him. Set a date where he has to be out of the house and stick to it. Anyone who lives with you for that long is NOT a guest, they're an unwanted roommate - and one who does not help with bills is unacceptable. He has absolutely no right to be making demands on you and your family like he has. If you have to call the cops, do it. Another suggestion - wait until he leaves the house, get all his stuff onto the lawn/driveway and change the locks. When gets back - have the doors locked. Both ways will show him how serious you are.
If you are determined to be kind and tactful then you can't exactly call the police, and a skunk wouldn't work because it is extremely hard to get the smell out of your stuff. You can try all the fine suggestions offered here, but talking to him and telling him that he has to leave may not work. He sounds really dense. Also, this is just a guess but I would say that he has extremely low self esteem and doesn't believe that he can make it on his own.
I have a suggestion, and this is going to sound like a really strange one, but just consider it for a moment. If none of the other ideas work I'd say that you have to make things more uncomfortable for him at your place than he would be else where. Before I offer my idea let me ask you if you know how the Cuckoo bird raises it's young? What the female Cuckoo does is to lay her egg in the nest of another bird. When the Cuckoo baby hatches he makes him or herself at home. The presense of the other baby birds makes the Cuckoo uncomfortable and so he simply pushes them out of the nest. When he is the only one left he is such a big baby that the poor parents are worn out feediing him. Thus the mother Cuckoo does nothing. Pretty clever huh? It sounds like you have a fine Cuckoo there in your nest, and he is changing your nest and making unreasonable demands on you and David to make himself more comfortable.
So you have to make him uncomfortable; very much so. Here is my idea. Why not tell him that you and your husband are looking into different religions and so you are inviting Jehovah's Witnesses to come over and study the Bible with you and explain their beliefs? Tell him that since he lives there you expect him to participate, and that they could be coming at various times without a set schedule.
Now I don't know what religion you are, or what your beliefs are, or what your feelings about Jehovah's Witnesses are, but just think about how uncomfortable that might make him. He doesn't sound like the type of person who would like to talk about the Bible with Jehovah's Witnesses, but if he did, and he liked what he heard then he would straighten up his life, get a job, and move out. If he didn't like it he would find another place to live where he felt more comfortable.
you are going to get a lot of ';tough love'; answers but I'll tell you the truth from where I am. Set a realistic date, eg.
-- august first--and then stick to it..........
he knows and the two of you know.
That is the date and he moves out.
Don't kick his *** out the door.
That aint good for nobody.
But once he is gone ,, doing his own thing, you might just be the people who advise others who have to deal with him. tell them , set a date so everyone knows he must move by then. all the best
Your house...YOUR RULES. Tell him to leave, and that he is an unwanted guest in your home. He has overextended his stay, and your generosity.
Family and money never mix. People feel the attachment of family to be stronger than money. Problem is, the bank feels the attachment to money, and the things you pay for with it, before your family. Be smart...if the money is running out before the guest is, then that is your fault!!
If all diplomatic ways were tried and failed, throw his things out in the street and never let him come in. Tell all your housemates to lock him out and never let him inside the house again.. or call the police and tell them he is a nuisance or trespassing..
well tell him that if he cant help with the bill then he has to go because you can't afford it and if that don't work then just tell him to leave don't take the excuses
tell him that you care about him and have helped him for the past 9 months. tell him that you will not be taken advantage of and that he is not contributing to the household. tell him he has three days to find a new place to stay, or you will call the cops and have him removed!
If he's being that big of a jerk, and is telling you when you can have sex, and telling you to keep the babies quiet, not to mention not giving you a dime to help pay for his extra mouth you are feeding, then he's not family at all! Tell him it's your house, and ';YOUR'; family is going to do whatever they want, whenever they want. Set a date for him to get out, and if he doesn't even bother to try, then the next time he leaves the house, throw all of his stuff on the curb, and have the locks changed on the house. Don't give in when he says he's sick, just tell him to go and find a new hospital to stay at, as you are not his caregiver.
Good luck!
hmmm...lol...give him a date that he has to be out by...and stick to it! I'd say...2 weeks...? =). there are homeless shelters...he will be just fine! You have given him more help than he has needed...and he should have been saving the money he didn't give you up...so he could get his own place...trust me...he may hate you...but, you have your own spouse and kids to think about first! Tell him no excuses this time...and that's that...=). Put his stuff on the lawn if he does not abide by it...and change the locks! =).
Drop kicking him sounds like a good idea.
However, you and your husband need to sit him down one day and tell him he has to find another place to live right away because he can't stay there anymore. You're not rich and you can't afford to support a full grown adult....and he has a wife and kids? What's with that? Why isn't he with them? He should be out working to provide for them, not freeloading from you two.
I would also give him an ultimatum. Either he leaves immediately, or he starts paying 1/2 of the bills, including food, water, electric, shampoo, etc.....be as petty on this one as you have to be. I'm guessing you'd rather he left instead of paid any money, so make it as unattractive as possible for him to keep staying there. Lay down the law......hard and fast....right on top of his head. Don't take any arguments. If he still refuses, have the MP's or local PD escort him off of the premises. Since he's not paying you anything at all, he's a guest and guests can be asked to leave at any time at all. He has no rights to that home and his autocratic behavior is his way of trying to assert his authority over you both. Don't stand for it.
Also, you might want to compile a list of items, food, bills etc that he's enjoyed during his stay there. Present this to him as his obligation to pay as well.
Lastly, I'd let the kids make a lot of noise and made sure this guest could hear you and your husband having sex at all hours. He has no right to dictate your behavior in your own home with your own husband. If he doesn't like hearing it, he should just leave, shouldn't he?. ;)
Good luck.What is the easiest way to get rid of a unwanted house guest?
You said you were pregnant before this question was posted, so Congrats. Kids are great, aren't they. :)
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You've got the Houseguest from Hell, and it's time to do what you should have done a looooong time ago. Confront the lying, conniving bum and tell him to pack his toothbrush and git. You say he has everyone fooled except you and your husband. Sounds to me like he has you all suckered up too, since this has been going on for so long and the two of you have meekly allowed it to continue.
Why should you care if he throws a crying fit? You know it's all a con. If it were me, I'd have long ago had his stuff packed myself, and tossed out into the street. Get some backbone, the both of you, and make him hit the road.
Pack his stuff up when he's gone and leave it out in the yard.
He'll get the idea.
OR
You could make up an advertisement ad for a garage sale. That says if you and your possessions are not moved out of here in 5 days or whatever, there will be a garage sale and all of your stuff will be sold. All profits will go to us to help pay for the 9 months you lived here expense free.
That should get him moving.
If not, be blunt - tell him he's got 3 days or whatever to get out or the police will be called.
Tell him he has til the end of the week to get out.
Why would kicking him out be an issue, you would rather him ruin your marriage and your family life? Why have you let him leech onto you guys for so long? It must have caused so much stress. Grow some balls and kick his *** out!
I would call the police if he doesnt go, lay the law. But, my auntie said to my uncle if yur not out of the house by ';x'; date i will throw u out, and he hung himself. Just be careful he isnt to emotionally attached right now and if he is i wouldnt do that and opt for the police x
It seems pretty apparent that he is a free loader and feels that you and your husband owe him for the privilege of just being family. It is time to stop being nice about it and just pack his stuff and set it outside and change the locks if you must. You and David can tell him tonight/today that he has one week to find a place to go, but that he has worn out his welcome. The whole idea that he had the gall to say that you and your husband should not have sex while he was there and to keep your kids quiet is just proof that he does not think of it as your home and he being a guest. That is him trying to make rules and demands like it is his home. Forget asking for him to contribute or get a job, KICK him out! You are not doing him any good by letting him stay, you are just enabling him to continue his life of laziness.
YOu lay down the law.
';If you are not out by ';X'; date, I will throw you out.';
tell him to pay or get out. If he doesn't like the way your household is than get out. Family or not it's your house, your rules if he doesn't want to respect you and your family than tell him to find another person in the fam to free load off.
Wait till he goes out ........... then change the locks asap ............. problem solved !
You have to be firm. Tell him it is time to go and give him 24 hrs to get out or you will have call the police. Don't ever invite him again. Learn a lesson from this.
You love the guy, but he needs a drop kick. Give him a date he has to be out and stick with it.
Obviously you know said family member's hijinks, so between you and your husband, set up ground rules for how to deal with the poacher and let him know it is for real and permanent. He sounds adacious beyond human compassion.
You are too kind, but it is not helping the guy to let him be a sponge, and your home should be your refuge.
I can't believe for as firm as you are with me, you would let a piece of trash like him over stay his welcome.
Close your eyes and pretend he's me.
I'm sure you would kick me out in a heartbeat.
Well it sounds like you are just gonna have to put your foot down, he is taking advatage of yall. 9 months is way to long for a GUEST to stay. You may piss him off but that is just what yall have to do. Good Luck. One other thing you do is paint the room he is staying in yellow, i hear that scares off the guests lol
Be firm with him. Set a date where he has to be out of the house and stick to it. Anyone who lives with you for that long is NOT a guest, they're an unwanted roommate - and one who does not help with bills is unacceptable. He has absolutely no right to be making demands on you and your family like he has. If you have to call the cops, do it. Another suggestion - wait until he leaves the house, get all his stuff onto the lawn/driveway and change the locks. When gets back - have the doors locked. Both ways will show him how serious you are.
If you are determined to be kind and tactful then you can't exactly call the police, and a skunk wouldn't work because it is extremely hard to get the smell out of your stuff. You can try all the fine suggestions offered here, but talking to him and telling him that he has to leave may not work. He sounds really dense. Also, this is just a guess but I would say that he has extremely low self esteem and doesn't believe that he can make it on his own.
I have a suggestion, and this is going to sound like a really strange one, but just consider it for a moment. If none of the other ideas work I'd say that you have to make things more uncomfortable for him at your place than he would be else where. Before I offer my idea let me ask you if you know how the Cuckoo bird raises it's young? What the female Cuckoo does is to lay her egg in the nest of another bird. When the Cuckoo baby hatches he makes him or herself at home. The presense of the other baby birds makes the Cuckoo uncomfortable and so he simply pushes them out of the nest. When he is the only one left he is such a big baby that the poor parents are worn out feediing him. Thus the mother Cuckoo does nothing. Pretty clever huh? It sounds like you have a fine Cuckoo there in your nest, and he is changing your nest and making unreasonable demands on you and David to make himself more comfortable.
So you have to make him uncomfortable; very much so. Here is my idea. Why not tell him that you and your husband are looking into different religions and so you are inviting Jehovah's Witnesses to come over and study the Bible with you and explain their beliefs? Tell him that since he lives there you expect him to participate, and that they could be coming at various times without a set schedule.
Now I don't know what religion you are, or what your beliefs are, or what your feelings about Jehovah's Witnesses are, but just think about how uncomfortable that might make him. He doesn't sound like the type of person who would like to talk about the Bible with Jehovah's Witnesses, but if he did, and he liked what he heard then he would straighten up his life, get a job, and move out. If he didn't like it he would find another place to live where he felt more comfortable.
you are going to get a lot of ';tough love'; answers but I'll tell you the truth from where I am. Set a realistic date, eg.
-- august first--and then stick to it..........
he knows and the two of you know.
That is the date and he moves out.
Don't kick his *** out the door.
That aint good for nobody.
But once he is gone ,, doing his own thing, you might just be the people who advise others who have to deal with him. tell them , set a date so everyone knows he must move by then. all the best
Your house...YOUR RULES. Tell him to leave, and that he is an unwanted guest in your home. He has overextended his stay, and your generosity.
Family and money never mix. People feel the attachment of family to be stronger than money. Problem is, the bank feels the attachment to money, and the things you pay for with it, before your family. Be smart...if the money is running out before the guest is, then that is your fault!!
If all diplomatic ways were tried and failed, throw his things out in the street and never let him come in. Tell all your housemates to lock him out and never let him inside the house again.. or call the police and tell them he is a nuisance or trespassing..
well tell him that if he cant help with the bill then he has to go because you can't afford it and if that don't work then just tell him to leave don't take the excuses
tell him that you care about him and have helped him for the past 9 months. tell him that you will not be taken advantage of and that he is not contributing to the household. tell him he has three days to find a new place to stay, or you will call the cops and have him removed!
If he's being that big of a jerk, and is telling you when you can have sex, and telling you to keep the babies quiet, not to mention not giving you a dime to help pay for his extra mouth you are feeding, then he's not family at all! Tell him it's your house, and ';YOUR'; family is going to do whatever they want, whenever they want. Set a date for him to get out, and if he doesn't even bother to try, then the next time he leaves the house, throw all of his stuff on the curb, and have the locks changed on the house. Don't give in when he says he's sick, just tell him to go and find a new hospital to stay at, as you are not his caregiver.
Good luck!
hmmm...lol...give him a date that he has to be out by...and stick to it! I'd say...2 weeks...? =). there are homeless shelters...he will be just fine! You have given him more help than he has needed...and he should have been saving the money he didn't give you up...so he could get his own place...trust me...he may hate you...but, you have your own spouse and kids to think about first! Tell him no excuses this time...and that's that...=). Put his stuff on the lawn if he does not abide by it...and change the locks! =).
How can i advertise my guest house on your stranraer list?
use the motorcycle mags and papers,your acc,. will soon get known by word of mouth amongst the worldwide motorcycle fraternity,isle of man,digs for foreign travellers en route etc.How can i advertise my guest house on your stranraer list?
My Stranraer list is very private, so you should please refrain from posting any advertisement there, if you have to, go to ebay.com, but please don't advertise om my stranraer list, I;m not ever sure if it's allowed, you might get kicked off for doing that.
My Stranraer list is very private, so you should please refrain from posting any advertisement there, if you have to, go to ebay.com, but please don't advertise om my stranraer list, I;m not ever sure if it's allowed, you might get kicked off for doing that.
Please suggest guest house/ hotel for a family to stay at Pondicherry for Admission into Pondi Cent University
Dial ' Any Time Any Where Tele.No. 39999999 ' %26amp; give them ur requirements they will give the detail/info. U require.
I want to buy a B&B or guest house in Skegness UK?
Also does anybody know of B%26amp;Bs for sale in the skegness area,
I require a commercial buisness loan of up to 90-95 percent of the asking price, Can anybody help.I want to buy a B%26amp;B or guest house in Skegness UK?
here you go mate a list of properties currently for sale in that area and a few miles away in the general area
http://www.ukpropertyshop.co.uk/estate-a鈥?/a>I want to buy a B%26amp;B or guest house in Skegness UK?
try the lady nmagazine
A good source for your search, would be at InternationalLiving.com
Try Daltons weekly they always have a lot of businesses in there
Get in touch with local estate agents
You will have trouble getting a commercial mortgage for that percentage of the purchase price although some specialist companies do it, especially if you will be liveling there as well and it is then considered part residential, [art commercial. I would go to a financial advisor though.
no way will you get a comercial business loan for 90%- 95% you may get one for 70%-75% and then only if you can show the lender you are up to running a B and B
good luck anyway
PS been there
I require a commercial buisness loan of up to 90-95 percent of the asking price, Can anybody help.I want to buy a B%26amp;B or guest house in Skegness UK?
here you go mate a list of properties currently for sale in that area and a few miles away in the general area
http://www.ukpropertyshop.co.uk/estate-a鈥?/a>I want to buy a B%26amp;B or guest house in Skegness UK?
try the lady nmagazine
A good source for your search, would be at InternationalLiving.com
Try Daltons weekly they always have a lot of businesses in there
Get in touch with local estate agents
You will have trouble getting a commercial mortgage for that percentage of the purchase price although some specialist companies do it, especially if you will be liveling there as well and it is then considered part residential, [art commercial. I would go to a financial advisor though.
no way will you get a comercial business loan for 90%- 95% you may get one for 70%-75% and then only if you can show the lender you are up to running a B and B
good luck anyway
PS been there
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